Since I added the “Ask Dr. Dawg” option to my contact form, I have been getting some interesting emails. I will be answering some of these questions from time to time on the blog. I will not post your name or email address, so feel free to submit a question.
Question: Why wont my lady suck my dick anymore? My lady has been on strike as of late. We been going out for about 8 months now and at the beginning she was giving me head before we fucked all the time. About 2 months ago I noticed she stopped. Now when I ask she be making excuses.
First thing you should do is check yourself. Has anything changed in the past few months that would cause her to back off?
I have been making porn movies for a while, so I have seen this unfold in front of me a few times. On one shoot, the girl was licking and sucking on the guy like she didn’t know how. I had to stop her, pull her to the side and ask what the problem was. She came out and told me point blank that “The dude was stank”. I apologized and told the guy the shoot was off for the day. He told me he caught a few buses to get to the office… So he was sweaty. I never told him why we stopped that day but that instantly became something I had to bring up before every shoot.
- It is summertime, make sure you are fresh. You can’t expect a woman to plant her face in your crotch with it smelling like old cabbage. I know some women like funk, but I’m guessing your lady ain’t into that.
- Stop eating bitter shit like asparagus and pickles. Drink pineapple juice and she’ll appreciate the taste.
- Go down on her, show her that you’d like the same treatment.
- Ask her. Don’t wait until you are in the bedroom about to get down… that may be a mood killer. When you are watching tv or walking somewhere just ask “Baby, why aren’t you sucking my dick like you use to?” Who knows – You may get an honest answer.
The worst case scenario is that she might not like sucking dick or how cum tastes. Women do a lot of freaky, nasty things that they may not enjoy just for the sake of pleasing their men. Your lady might not be feeling you like that – Yet. If all else fails… It may be time to move on. It is a known fact that sexual incompatibility can/will ruin a relationship.
*Disclaimer: I am not really a doctor, I just play one on the internet. Advice given is my opinion and should not be taken as gospel.